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tips on talking respectfully, truthfully, and valuably about that which you'd sooner imagine pain

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• tips on talking respectfully, truthfully, and valuably about that which you'd sooner imagine pain*

1. Use "I" statements instead of blaming or accusing language. For example, instead of saying "you did this," say "I feel hurt when this happens."

2. Avoid using hurtful or offensive language.

3. Listen actively and try to understand the other person's perspective.

4. Stay calm and refrain from getting defensive.

5. Avoid making assumptions and ask for clarification if you are unsure about something.

6. Speak truthfully, but also consider the other person's feelings and be sensitive to their emotional state.

7. Focus on the issue at hand rather than bringing up past events.

8. Seek to find common ground and work towards a resolution that is beneficial for both parties.

9. Be willing to apologize and take responsibility for your actions if necessary.

10. Keep in mind that effective communication takes practice and patience, so don't be discouraged if it takes some time to get it right.

Originally published on Choir Substack: https://choir.substack.com/p/in-praise-of-twitter.